Iwe unozonyanya kuona kukosha kwechidhori chako chinogona kuunza kuhupenyu hwako nekuvapo

Chii zvakachipa zvidhori zvepabonde? Mumashoko ezvekurapa azvino, i "sexual drive control disorder kana kurasikirwa ne libido", rudzi rwekumanikidzira kuita bonde (kubatwa chibharo imwe mhando yekumanikidzira kuita zvepabonde). Muchokwadi, psychopathology uye psychology yanga iri mukudzidza kwekupindwa muropa nebonde kubva pakati pezana ramakore rechi20. Muvhoriyamu yechina yeDiagnostic uye Statistical Manual yeMental Disorders, tsananguro uye tsananguro ye "kupindwa muropa" ndiyo yazvino kuongororwa uye chirwere chepfungwa muUnited States. Muvhoriyamu yechishanu yeStatistical Manual (DSM-5), hapana izwi kana tsananguro ye "kupindwa muropa nebonde".

Namamwe mashoko, gakava rezvokurapa pamusoro pe“kupindwa muropa nevatano” harisati riri hosha yendangariro inooneka, uye haisati yagamuchirwa navazhinji varapi vendangariro vanonyanyozivikanwa navanonzvera ndangariro. IAmerican Psychological Association (APA) haisati yaona kupindwa muropa nebonde sechirwere chepfungwa chakajeka, chakamisikidzwa, uye chinorapika, asi tsvakiridzo yekupindwa muropa nebonde mune zvepfungwa uye zvepfungwa haina kumbomira. Naizvozvo, kunyangwe isu takajaira kushandisa izwi rekuti "kupindwa muropa nebonde", dzimwe nyanzvi dzinosarudza kushandisa mazwi akadai se "sexual impulse control disorder" uye "compulsive sex behavior".

Kunyange zvazvo muviri Tpe bonde chidhori zvichiri kudhura zvakanyanya, mararamiro edu ari kuramba achikwira. Pamusoro pezvo, kune vagadziri vedzimba vanowedzera, uye kune akawanda maapplication eTPE data. Iye zvino mutengo wezvidhori zvenyama wakaderera zvakanyanya, saka vanhu vazhinji vanogona kuzvitenga. Panguva ino, mutengo wezvidhori zvemuviri unovhiringidza zvikuru. Mitengo yemumba inotangira pamazana mashoma eyuan kusvika kumakumi ezviuru ezvidhori zvesilicone. Kune marudzi ese ezvidhori zvenyama. Nyaya inotevera ichasuma muchidimbu maitiro ezvidhori zvenyama zvazvino. Ona kuti ndeipi iri nani.

Isu tese tinoziva kuti chidhori chemuviri imhando yechitoyi chevakuru, chinoshandiswa kutsiva vanhu chaivo kugutsa zvishuwo zvemuviri. Kuti unzwisise zvirinani rudo uye kunzwa rudo zvirinani, zvidhori zvemuviri zvinoda kuve neanotevera maitiro: Kutanga, chidhori chakanaka chebonde inofanirwa kunge iine ganda rakateedzerwa zvakanyanya, risiri-chepfu uye rakachengeteka, kunzwa kwakanaka kwemaoko, kusimba kwepamusoro, uye kunyanya kubata kwakafanana nevanhu chaivo. Inofanirawo kuva ne-anti-fouling effect uye kuva nyore kwazvo kuchenesa. Chidhori chakanaka chemuviri chine ganda rakapfava uye rinopenya, uye kubata kuri pedyo neganda chairo.

Panogona kunge paine manzwiro pakati pechero munhu uye chero chinhu, uye ipfungwa dzako pachako nezviito zvinosarudza kubatana kwako pachako uye ruzivo. Kana manzwiro aya akakura pakati pako nemudiwa wako uye chidhori chebonde, unogona kuona kukosha kwaungaunze nechidhori chako kuhupenyu hwako nekuvapo. Iko kuvapo kwemanzwiro ako, manzwiro uye pfungwa dzinogona kuonesa hukama hwako uye ruzivo nechidhori, uye zvakare ita chidhori chako mudiwa wako uye mubatsiri muhupenyu hwako.

Nhasi tinotarisa kuti zvakadii kudanana nechidhori chebonde. Nekuita izvi, tiri kupemberera hukama hunogona kuumbwa pakati pemunhu nechidhori chavo. Hazvishamisi kukudziridza manzwiro uye manzwiro erudo uye zvidhori zvepabonde. Kutaura zvazviri, izvi zviri kuitika munyika yose. Kune hutano uye mweya wevanhu vese, hukama pakati pevaridzi vezvidhori nezvidhori zvavo hunofanira kukumbundirwa nekukurudzirwa. Rudo uye Rudo Dhongi inogona kuwedzera nekuvandudza hupenyu hwako, uye kukupa iwe kuwedzera kwehutano hwepfungwa uye hwemuviri pane yakadzika nhanho. Ngatiteererei rudo!