Paunenge uchienda kuburikidza nekutarisa, zvakakoshawo kusarudza yakapusa yekutenga sarudzo kubva kune akawanda aripo sarudzo. Zvingave zvakanaka kana ukasarudza nzira yekubhadhara iri nyore kuitira kuti iwe ugone kubhadhara zviri nyore uye nekukurumidza. Sekuda kwe WM Dolls inowedzera, zvinoita sekunge indasitiri yezvidhori zvebonde haizodzokera kumashure munguva pfupi. Zvinotonyanya kukosha, chinhu chega chinozochinja hunyanzvi hwakaoma uye zvinhu zvinoshandiswa kugadzira zvidhori kuti chifananidzo chavo chive chechokwadi.
Panguva imwe cheteyo, sezvo nyaya yereshiyo yevarume nevakadzi kuChina nepasi rose iri kutatarika, indasitiri iyi iri kufambawo. Uri kutsvaga mumwe munhu anogona kugutsa chishuwo chako chekusangana pabonde uye kukupa iwe yekupedzisira mufaro wehupenyu? Aiwawa ine akawanda mabhenefiti ekurapa, semuenzaniso, inobatsira kudzoreredza kushushikana uye kusagadzikana. Muchokwadi, inobatsira kuita rudo, inowedzera mwero weoxytocin muuropi, uye inoita kuti unzwe uchifara. Paunenge uchiita zvepabonde nechidhori, uropi hwako hunobudisa "hug hormone", ndicho chikonzero chikuru chinoita kuti unzwe kufara pabonde.
Mukuwedzera, the tpe bonde chidhori ndiyo shamwari yakakwana yevanhu vanotambura nekuora mwoyo uye autism. Inogara ichivaperekedza, inova shamwari yavo yemubhedha, uye pakupedzisira inobatsira munhu kuvandudza hutano hwake. Vanogona kuva mhinduro yakakwana, kunyanya kana hukama hwenyu hwekare hwakakuunza iwe kusuwa kukuru uye kusuwa. Iyo yekufungidzira 140 cm bonde chidhori chaunosarudza muUnited States chicharamba chakadaro uye chakanaka kusvika wamuendesa kumba.
Nenzira iyi, unogona zvakare kukuchengetedza kure nezvirwere zvakawanda zvepabonde, zvinozivikanwa seSTIs. Unobata zvidhori zvebonde senhengo dzemhuri here? Zvidhori zvepabonde zvakaita sehupenyu zvinotsiva uye kugutsikana kwehupenyu chaihwo, asi zvakafanana nerudo psychology, asi ivo vanonyanya kuda kubata uye kudzora munhu. Vamwe vanhu vanogona kuvhiringidzika muhupenyu chaihwo, zvakaoma kumisa hukama hwechokwadi huri nani, kana zvimwe zvezvido zvepfungwa muchokwadi hazvizadziswe, saka chikamu ichi chekufungidzira chinogona kugutsikana munyika chaiyo.
Rangarira, kugadzirisa kwechidhori kwepabonde kunoitwa newe kuratidza chitarisiko chaunoda, asi iwe unofanirwa kushandisa zvimwe zvinhu zvakakosha kune chidhori. Usati watenga, unofanira kuzvibvunza mibvunzo mishoma. Vatori vemifananidzo vekuGerman Sandra naDirk vakasangana online. Mushure mekudzidza nezvemamiriro ake ezvinhu, Sandra akasarudza kumutora mufananidzo kuti arekode hupenyu hwaDirk nemukadzi wake wesilicone. Pakutanga, Dirk akanga akangwarira zvikuru, achityira kuti chakavanzika chake chaizowanwa navamwe, uye vaizomuti munyengeri.
Asi mushure mekunge vataurirana, Dirk akabvuma kupfura, asi akakumbira kusaratidza chiso chake uye kusashandisa zita rake chairo. Iwe wakatenga yepamusoro-notch uye inokatyamadza yakanaka uye yechokwadi zvakachipa zvidhori zvepabonde iwe pachako; makorokoto. Asi sezvimwe zvinhu zvese zvehupenyu muhupenyu, unofanirwa kutarisira chidhori chako chepabonde kuti chichengetedze chiri muchimiro chayo chakanaka uye kuwedzera hupenyu hwayo hwesherufu.
Dzataurwa pazasi ndedzimwe nzira dzaunogona kuchengetedza uye kutarisira chidhori chako chaicho. Munhu anosika anogarofunga zvakawanda pamusoro pezvinhu zvikuru zvakawanda zvaanogona kuita. Kune izvo zvinhu zvakasiyana uye zviitiko zvakakosha kuedza, denga harina muganho. Iwe unofanirwawo kufunga nezvekuwedzera kugadzira muhupenyu hwako. Unogona kutora zvidzidzo zveunyanzvi kana zvemimhanzi, kwaunogona kudzidza kuridza chiridzwa kana kukoshesa mabasa eunyanzvi.
