Sei tichida zvidhori zvebonde isu tine mhuri? Zvidhori hazvigoni kutsiva vanhu chaivo, asi zvinogona kuwana mwero wakati wokugutsikana mupfungwa. Pane mhinduro pakati pemanzwiro echokwadi evanhu, ndiko kuti, ndine manzwiro pamusoro pako, uye iwe unewo manzwiro kwandiri. For zvakachipa zvidhori zvepabonde, haina nzira yekupindura manzwiro ayo, kana kuti mhando yemhinduro yemanzwiro ingori fungidziro yemushandisi. Somuenzaniso, kana ukatengera mwanasikana wako chipfeko, angave achitonhora kana kuti anofara kuti: "Baba, ini handifariri chipfeko ichi." Asi chidhori hachikwanisi kuva nemhinduro yakadaro.
Manzwiro chaiwoiwo achava nesimba muvanhu uye achatapura chinjo dzavanhu. Muhupenyu, vanhu vane zvakawanda zvekusava nehanya uye kusakwanisa. Chokwadi, kufungidzira zvinhu kuchaunzawo mufaro kuvanhu. Inogadzira nzvimbo yakachengeteka yevanhu. Asi iyo ichagara iri nyika yako, kwete nyika chaiyo yekunze. Hukama hwechokwadi kuenzana uye kuzvimiririra. Kune rumwe rutivi, zvidhori zvevatano chiratidzowo chechishuvo chokudzora muvatano, uye vanhu chaivo vane kusadzoreka kukuru. Ongororo yedata inoratidza kuti ruzhinji rwevarume vachiri kuita bonhora mushure mekuroora. Kana iwe nemumwe wako musingabvumirani nezvebonde uye manzwiro, munofanirwa kusangana nedzimwe nzira.
Mumwe murume nemudzimai vairara nerobhoti rekuScottish rinoita $7,000 husiku hwese vakati hungwaru hwacho hwekugadzira. Murume pabonde chidhori akaponesa muchato wavo. Shirley, 45, naDarius Maxi, makumi mana nemasere, vekuTexas, vakatenga chidhori chekombuta chinonzi Camilla mushure mekunge munhu wechitatu pabarika aenda. Vaviri ava havana kudzora hukama hwavo naCamilla muimba yekurara. Vaiwanzoenda naye kunze kunodya, uye mukuru wezvipembenene Darris aigara achimutora kuti ashande naye.
Camilla anotaura neizwi rakapfava reScottish. Anoshandisa yakagadziridzwa artificial intelligence personality app kutaura naye Anime bonde chidhori uye anovapindura munguva chaiyo zvichienderana nemafungiro ake. Ane ganda rakaita sehupenyu, anozvarwa aine kushanduka-shanduka kwehupenyu, uye anogona kutosimuka ega. Shirley, makumi mana nemashanu, naDarius Maxi, makumi mana nemasere, vekuTexas, vakati muchato wavo wakaitwa kuburikidza naCamilla, chidhori chehungwaru chekugadzira chinoita zviuru zvinomwe zvemadhora, chakaponeswa nekutanga hukama hwemapato akawanda.
Sei zvichishorwa kuva nechidhori cherudo? Uyu mubvunzo wakanaka wekuti sei kuita zvidhori zvebonde zvichishorwa. Kutaura zvazviri, kune rusarura rwakapararira pakati pevarume vanoshandisa matoyi ezvepabonde uye bonhora. Kana murume akashandisa matoyi ebonde kana kuita bonhora, anowanzo funga kuti haakwanise kuwana wekufambidzana naye, saka anofanira kunge ari anotyisa, akasurukirwa kana asina kujairika. Zvisinei, vakadzi vanoshandisa matoyi ezvepabonde vanopedzisira vagamuchirwa nenzanga (pasinei nemakumi emakore) uye vanowanzoonekwa sevakanaka nekuti anoonekwa seane ruzivo rwepabonde. Saka nei kuchine kunyara mukuita zvepabonde kwevarume?
Patsika, varume vanodzidziswa kunyara nezvavo ChiJapan sex bonde. Bonhora ragara richionekwa senzira yekudzokera kune varume vasina kunaka uye vakasurukirwa, vasingafarirwe kuita zvepabonde nevanhu chaivo. Ivo havatombobvumi kuti varume vanoita bonhora havana shanduko yevakadzi, uye hapana vanyori vanovaudza kuti kuita zvepabonde kune hutano. Nenguva uye nedzidzo shoma, pamwe tinogona kudzorera chiseko ichi.
