Une chokwadi here kuti chidhori chako chepabonde hachina kutendeka

Iwe unotarisa nharembozha dzavo kuti uone kuti vanga vachisangana naani, kana kuvatevera, iwe unogara uchitsvaga imwe mhando yehumbowo hwekuti mumwe wako haana kujairika. Kune zvakare mhando yegodo inonzi delusional jealous. Chirwere ichi dzimwe nguva chinosangana nezvimwe zvirwere zvepfungwa, zvakadai sezvinonyadzisira, schizophrenia, kana bipolar disorder. Pathological godo rinoitikawo muhukama chaihwo hwevanhu. Neimwe nzira, iwe unogutsikana kuti yako Anime bonde chidhori haana kutendeka, kunyangwe usina humbowo kana maidi anoratidza fungidziro yako.

Iwe wakagadzira zvisingagoneki zviitiko kutsigira fungidziro yako. Iwe unova udyire, iwe unoshandura hupenyu hwechidhori chako chepabonde kuita maitiro ekutsvaga humbowo hwekunyengedza kwako. Attachment Disorders Zvakajairika kuti uve wakabatana mupfungwa kune mumwe wako shure kwezvose, chikamu chehukama hwese hwerudo. Nekudaro, vamwe vanhu vanozoratidza abnormal attachment disorder, inovawo chirwere chepfungwa.

nhasi, chidhori chakanaka chebonde dzimwe nguva dzinonzi "Dutch Lady" muJapan. (Imhaka yekuti) mabhuku acho anotaura kuti chidhori ichi chedehwe chinomonerwa nemaoko chakagadzirwa nevafambisi vengarava vechiDutch muzana remakore rechi17 ndokuunzwa kuJapan. Zvidhori zvebonde zvevafambisi vengarava zvinopa vakadzi zvinotsiva zvavanoda. Mukadzi uyu anogona kuva chero munhu, uye vamwe varume vanogadzira zvidhori kutsiva vamwe vakadzi. Muna 1916, muimbi weAustroHungarian Oscar Kokoschka akasiiwa neanodiwa piyano uye munyori wenziyo Alma Mahler, uye akati akange asisina ushingi uye chivimbo chekutarisana nerudo (ichi zvakare chiunganidzwa chezvidhori kubva kare kusvika nhasi) ) Vanhu kazhinji. say).

Asi Kokoschka achiri kuda Muller zvakanyanya, ndosaka akapa vaturi mirairo yakadzama yemaitirwo ekugadzira ChiJapan sex bonde zvakafanana naMahler. Kwete chete kuonekwa kwechidhori kunotsanangurwa zvakadzama, asiwo zvinodiwa zvekunzwa kwechidhori zvinoiswa mberi. Mushure mokunge Kokska agamuchira chido cheMuller, vanyori vezvakaitika kare vane maonero akasiyana pamusoro pezvakaitika kare. Wese munhu anobvumirana pane chinhu chimwe chidhori chinonzwa kusuwa zvakanyanya, kwete senge munhu, asi senge chitoyi chemhando yepamusoro. Vamwe vanhu vanoti vagara vachifarira zvidhoma izvi, vamwewo vachiti vari kuodzwa mwoyo zvikuru nezvidhoma zvavakapihwa.

Vamwe vanhu vanga vachitarisira "kuita" kwechidhori. Iye mutengesi wemasheya muBeijing, ane makore makumi matatu nematanhatu. Anotenda kuti rudo muhupenyu chaihwo hune akawanda ekuwedzera mamiriro, uye iye zvino akasiya pfungwa yekutanga mhuri nevakadzi chaivo, uye anotarisira kumisa kutaurirana kwemweya nechidhori. Kwaari, chidhori ndiye mukadzi iye, kwete mukadzi.

Anowanzo kutenga zvipfeko zvakasiyana-siyana zvechidhori, anomupfekedza semupurisa, mukurumbira, mukadzi mukuru, nezvimwewo, uyewo anoaina mbatya dzake. Mukuita kambani ne Tpe bonde chidhori, iye acharamba asingazivi "reaction" yechidhori. Shamwari dzimwe nguva dzinofungidzira zvinoitika kana chidhori chine mweya. Vamwe vanhu vakapindura kuti: "Ko chidhori chichakufarira here kana chine mweya? Usafunga nezvazvo."